Wednesday, January 1, 2020

Spiritual Resources for Addicts, Families, and Loved Ones


As we begin a new decade, let us consider spiritual resources for those who have an addiction as well as for their families and loved ones. The source for these beneficial resources is available at https://www.hbgdiocese.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Spiritual_Resources_-_Addiction.pdf

The contents include scripture passages, prayers for recovery,  Rosary meditations for help with addictions, Stations of the Cross for 12-step recovery, novena to the Holy Spirit for addictions and recovery, patron saints for addiction and related issues, and other helpful links and resources.







Sunday, December 22, 2019

A Proposed Documentary about Venerable Matt Talbot

"In a world full of addiction we desire to present the hope found in Matt Talbot's inspiring conversion" in a new documentary.


Matt Talbot Documentary
 

Friday, December 6, 2019

Granby Lane



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Images of Granby Lane, Dublin 1 where Matt Talbot died in 1925  and his memorial plaque. You can see the back of St .Saviour’s  in the background of the picture where he was headed for another Mass.



Friday, November 29, 2019

1937 Painting of Matt Talbot Sold


 
 

Lot 1219/0221

SOLD Hammer price: €180
Signed by The Artist
O’Sullivan (Sean) Matt Talbot 1856 – 1925, a large coloured print, approx. 58.5cms x 44cms (23″ x 17 1/2″), in attractive wash mount, signed on mount ‘Sean O’Sullivan R.H.a. 1937,’ gilt tipped wooden frame. (1)

 
Source:  https://fonsiemealy.ie/auctions/lot-12190221/?fbclid=IwAR04AqOo23fvymR2zKLb_p38oYZa_oiUQoxyhI4JbtTuW3M9a9yOPV2VQ3I

Friday, November 1, 2019

All Saints' Day


The scope of All Saints' Day includes all those officially recognized as saints and those whose cause for canonization has not yet been completed, like Venerable Matt Talbot.

 It also includes those whose holy lives were known only to God as well as their family, friends or religious communities.

PRAYER – Lord, in Your servant, Venerable Matt Talbot you have given us a wonderful example of triumph over addiction, of devotion to duty and charity and commitment to daily prayer. May his life........#mypic









 

Tuesday, October 15, 2019

St. John Henry Newman and Venerable Matt Talbot

As we recently posted on March 4, 2019 (http://venerablematttalbotresourcecenter.blogspot.com/search/label/Blessed%20John%20Henry%20Newman) Matt Talbot was basically illiterate when he signed a pledge not to drink, confessed his sins to a priest, and turned his life over to the care of God at the age of 28. He laboriously began to read over the years and would frequently ask his spiritual advisor and the Lord about certain words and what certain passages meant.

Over the years he read his Bible, the lives of saints, and books by saints. One day, in the timber yard during lunch break  Daniel Manning, a fellow worker, saw Matt reading Apologia Pro Vita Sua by John Henry Newman and said to Matt that he tried to read it but it was very difficult to understand. Matt simply answered that when he got a book like that he always prayed to Our Blessed Lady and she always inspired him to take the correct meaning from the words. See page 101 at




It is interesting a book was published in 1945 and 1946 by different publishers with the same content but with different titles:  Saints for the Times and John Henry Newman, St. Augustine, St. Thomas Aquinas, St. Thomas More, Matt Talbot  by Reverend Thomas J. McCarthy,Ph.D. at https://venerablematttalbotresourcecenter.blogspot.com/2016/07/matt-talbot-common-man_19.html
Hopefully the day will come when Venerable Matt Talbot will be proclaimed a saint.

Friday, October 11, 2019

Who is Matt Talbot?

“Guess House in Michigan (USA) has been serving the Catholic Church for more than 60 years with “the world’s first and most successful treatment and recovery program for Catholic clergy and religious in providing  the information, education, treatment and care needed to overcome alcoholism, addictions and other behavioral health conditions.” (https://guesthouse.org/

Who is Matt Talbot?
Sep 11, 2019





Who is Matt Talbot? A growing number of people in recovery know. In November 1991, St. John Paul II  told a Guest House alumnus “I am very interested in the canonization of Matt Talbot.”

Guest House began prayers and Masses in honor of Talbot’s June 19 Feast many years ago and Guest House priests have led or been a part of the growing Matt Talbot retreat movement. Father Mark Stelzer, Guest House education director, has led several of the popular retreats.This year, Guest House brought benefactors and alumni from across the United States for its first Matt Talbot pilgrimage to Ireland, retracing his journey through life. But exactly who was Matt Talbot? His story is inspiring:

Venerable Matt Talbot (May 2, 1856 to June 7, 1925) was an Irish alcoholic (admittedly the son of a drunk), and a laborer who became an ascetic (ascetics abstain from sexual and other pleasures in pursuit of spiritual goals). When brick layer’s laid bricks, he served as their “hodman,’’ humbly gathering mortar and bricks for the craftsmen. 

How Matt Talbot hit bottom

 Numerous American Catholics say a devotion to Matt Talbot helped in their journey toward recovery. From age 13 to age 28, his drinking was uncontrollable. Friends said Matt “only wanted one thing: the drink… for the drink, he’d do anything.’’

In his darkest days, Matt literally spent all his available money on alcohol. 

 

When his wages were exhausted, he could turn the mangle (the hand-driven mechanism that squeezed the water out of wet clothes) for a local wash woman. His reward for helping a wash woman?  A pig’s head. He would then sell the pig’s head for money to buy drinks.


He was also known to pawn his coat or boots for money to buy alcohol and he would be mocked for walking barefoot through the streets. He hit bottom when he and his brothers stole a fiddle from a blind street musician, selling it for the price of a single drink.

He eventually began a seven year search to find the street musician he had robbed. He eventually took the money he hoped to return to the musician and used it to have Masses offered for the man’s soul.

Talbot knew he had to go to Confession. So he went to  Holy Cross College, the seminary for Dublin, Ireland, where he confessed his sins.

He soon after, made a pledge to stop drinking for three months but there was no Alcoholics Anonymous, no recovery or support groups, not even family or friends he could count on. So he focused everything he had on God.

For the first time in many years, he accepted the sacrament of Holy Communion at a morning Mass at St. Francis Xavier Church, beginning a new routine of attending Mass every day. 

But the struggle continued. During Mass, he fell to the floor, hearing a voice tell him “It’s no use. You’ll never stop drinking.”
He got on his knees, begging God for mercy.

 “Three things I cannot escape.’’ Talbot declared. “ The Eye of God, the voice of conscience, the stroke of death. In company, guard your tongue. In your family, guard your temper. When alone, guard your thoughts.” 

12 steps before the 12 Steps

 

Fifty years before the 12-steps were written, Matt Talbot learned his own variation with a Jesuit spiritual advisor who followed the Ignatian Way:

  • He abstained from drinking (vowing to be sober for three months, then for another six months and finally for the rest of his life but the first seven years of his abstaining was particularly difficult for him.
  • He confessed his sins regularly, attending daily Mass.
  • He learned to read so he could study the Bible, becoming a lay member, Third Order Franciscan.
  • He gained strength by frequently praying before the Blessed Sacrament, asking how anyone could be lonely when they were with the Lord. Some say they saw him in “ecstasy” when praying before the Crucifix.
  • He would take working class jobs and give to charity the money he would have otherwise spent on alcohol.
  • His desire for alcohol remained but when he felt the urge to drink, he went to Church, turned to God for help and prayed.
  • “It is easier to get out of hell’’ than to give up drinking, Talbot said. He also gave up smoking, confiding that it was actually easier to give up alcohol than it was to quit smoking.
  • Talbot was often asked to pray for others. Once, when asked to pray for a man’s sick wife, Talbot said he would pray to Our Lady. The next day, he told the man the prayers would be answered but not in the way he hoped, telling the man to not to be afraid, that everything would work out as it was meant to. The next day, the man’s wife died and the man felt certain Talbot’s prayers had been heard and that his wife was in Heaven.

 

Matt Talbot: From “poorest of the poor” to being widely known as holy


The poorest of the poor and most addicted people can relate to his testimony.

As the Matt Talbot Dublin Diocesan Committee argues, Talbot: “lived in a tenement, wore second hand clothes, died in a laneway and was buried in a pauper’s grave. 

Coming from such a deprived background and with an alcoholic father and a family history of neglect and poverty, Matt found himself sucked into the culture of addiction and to the only choice of drug available to the poor of his day, alcohol. Matt, like so many others, embraced alcohol as a means of escape from the misery and poverty of daily life. Today we live in an age of addictions more sophisticated perhaps than those of Matt’s day, addictions to substances such as alcohol and other drugs soft or hard, prescription or illegal, addictions to gambling, pornography and the internet, addictions to work, professional advancement, sex, money and power. All these have the ability to destroy our lives and like demons even our very souls as well.”

He is celebrated as a patron of the fallen, broken and alcoholics. Talbot also spoke of “the Way” saying: “To know God and to understand His ways and to watch in His presence in all sanctity is the great end of life.” 

He died at age 69 on Trinity Sunday 1925, the hottest day of the year in the midst of a heat wave, while hurrying to attend his second Mass of that Sunday. Witnesses who gathered around him after he fell in the nearby streets said his eyes closed around 9:40a.m. as the Church bells were ringing. 

People immediately began talking about his intense holiness and spreading the word. A short biography written about him the year after he died sold more than 120,000 copies.

People wanted to hear his story. The first formal book about this poor worker, Life of Matt Talbot, would appear in 1928, just three years after his death. 

By 1931, the beatification process had already begun and the following year, the International Eucharistic Congress started encouraging pilgrims to learn the Matt Talbot story.

 By 1972, work began on a shrine and in 1975, he was declared Venerable by St. Paul VI.

“Never be too hard on the man who can’t give up drink,’’ Talbot once said. “It’s as hard to give up drink as it is to raise the dead to life again. But both are possible and even easy for Our Lord. We have only to depend on Him.’’

Wednesday, October 9, 2019

"Catholic in Recovery"

"Catholic in Recovery (https://catholicinrecovery.com) is a nonprofit organization that seeks to serve those suffering from addictions and unhealthy attachments (including alcoholism, drug addiction, pornography addiction, sex and relationship addiction, compulsive overeating and food addictions, gambling addiction, codependency and the impact on family, and general fear, control, and anxiety).

The organization was started by the passion of Scott Weeman as he found healing and new life through the help of twelve step recovery and the sacramental love and mercy provided by the Catholic Church. We support parishes and communities with group resources that draw people closer to these two powerful sources of grace. It is the aim of Catholic in Recovery to share the Good News that God can bring about healing and recovery, even in the most hopeless of cases."

A brief video by Scott about Venerable Matt Talbot is available at https://vimeo.com/361074503

A related reference with Scott is at  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTuZOYpyKlE

Monday, September 30, 2019

Matt Talbot: An old friend on the modern journey to recovery

Gina is quite active in speaking and writing about Matt Talbot.

Matt Talbot: An old friend on the modern journey to recovery
By Gina Christian
Catholic News Service
September 16, 2019

After 30 years of drug and alcohol abuse, Pat — a Philadelphia native with tattooed arms and a Rocky Balboa accent — made an unlikely new friend: Matt Talbot, an Irish laborer who’d been dead for about a century.

“I’d never heard of him until I got sober,” said Pat, now a member of the Calix Society, a Catholic support group for those in addiction recovery.

During a Calix meeting that Pat attended after getting clean, the group’s national chaplain, Father Douglas McKay, showed a film on Talbot, who had battled the bottle throughout adolescence and early adulthood.

After taking an abstinence pledge at age 28, Talbot remained sober for decades until his death in 1925, living a quiet, ascetic life that included daily Mass, prayer, Scripture reading and charitable works.

Collapsing on a Dublin street en route to Mass, Talbot was discovered to have regularly worn penitential chains. Declared “venerable” by Pope Paul VI in 1975, Talbot is now invoked as an intercessor by a number of groups that minister to those suffering from addiction, including the Calix Society, which was founded in the U.S. some 20 years after Talbot’s death.

During his August 2018 visit to Ireland, Pope Francis stopped at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Dublin to pray before several relics of Talbot, whose tomb is just feet from the church’s altar.

For Pat, learning about Talbot was life-changing, and he began praying to the would-be saint, whose intercession he also credits for his healing from an intestinal rupture that required 14 hours of emergency surgery.

After his hospitalization, Pat attended a Matt Talbot-themed retreat, where he was able to release many of the resentments that had fueled his addiction.

“I found forgiveness not only for myself, but for the people who had molested me as a child, and for anybody that had ever hurt me,” he said. “I finally saw everyone as being worthy of God’s love.”

Longtime Calix member Kathy Diering said that Talbot, in his resolute example of holiness, “speaks volumes without even speaking.”

“When you look at his hiddenness, his spirituality, you see that he really knew that the body and blood of Christ were his true source of life,” she said. “He was steadfast, and that’s been an inspiration for me, because he shows what is possible.”

Talbot’s conversion from sot to saint, made all the more dramatic by the severity of his alcoholism, resonates with those looking to free themselves from addiction. In fact, many of those devoted to Matt Talbot say that his sanctity was the real key to his sobriety. “He knew that everyone else might leave him, but God wouldn’t,” said Diering. “And that’s where his strength was.
Holiness is a sign of authentic recovery from addiction, said Father McKay, who is looking to create a national shrine to Matt Talbot in Philadelphia. While addiction is a complex disease of body, mind and spirit, he said, too often treatment only focuses on the first two, without addressing the soul’s deep hunger for connection with the divine.

Globally, some 35 million people now struggle with drug addiction, according to the United Nations. A separate study projects that alcohol consumption (which rose 10% between 1990 and 2017) will increase by another 17% worldwide over the next decade.

In the face of such daunting statistics, Talbot’s appeal as a role model and intercessor continues to grow internationally, thanks to the dedicated efforts of those who work to share, online and in person, the Irishman’s message of hope.

From his native Poland, Gregory Jakielski has been diligently spreading devotion to this saint-in-the-making for the past seven years, maintaining both a website and Facebook page that feature a number of Matt Talbot resources. In August 2018, he collected hundreds of names that were placed by a pilgrim on Matt Talbot’s tomb in Dublin.

For Pat, Matt Talbot's simplicity makes clear the path to both sobriety and sanctity. "He had no real possessions, he said. He didn't need anything but God's love, and he wanted to make others feel that too."
 






Sunday, September 22, 2019

A Perspective on Drinking in Dublin

The author of this article serves as Director of Formation for Catholic Schools and Catechesis at the Archdiocese of Denver and teaches at the Augustine Institute (USA).  Photographs accompanying this article are found on the link below.

Drinking . . . and Not Drinking in Dublin
by Jared Staudt
September 16, 2019
 
We began our Beauty of Faith Pilgrimage to Ireland in Dublin, visiting its churches and its saints/saints in the making: St. Valentine-the Roman saint whose relics are at the Whitefriar Street church; St. John Henry Newman’s University Church where he delivered some of the discourses that became An Idea of a University; St. Lawrence O’Toole, medieval bishop of the city, and Bl. John Sullivan, a Jesuit with a gift for healing. 

Watching over our pilgrimage, however, were two holy figures from Dublin to make sure we consumed in moderation (both of whom appear in The Beer Option.  Fr. Theobald Matthew (1790-1856) formed the Total Abstinence Society to combat the sin of drunkenness and administered the pledge to over 3 million people in Ireland, and also traveled in Britain and the United States. Alcohol clearly falls within Jesus’ teaching on the Sermon on the Mount: “If your eyes causes you to sin, pluck it out.” The other is Ven. Matt Talbot (1856-1925), who became an alcoholic at a young age, while working in a liquor store. He fell to such a level that his friends mocked him and refused to help him, causing him to wake up, go to confession, and take the pledge. He became a Third Order Franciscan, consecrated his life to Our Lady following St. Louis de Montfort, adopted strict penances, and spent his life serving his fellow, poor workers in Dublin.

The Catholic tradition embraces the festivity of eating and drinking, but within the context of fasting and friendship so that, as Paul says, “whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” Our pilgrimage experience in Dublin testified to the right balance of drinking and abstaining, both witnessed by the saints.

Tuesday, September 17, 2019

Learning From Venerable Matt Talbot About Attachment and Detachment of Addictions*


Homily For Eighteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time (C) 
by Fr. Billy Swan
July 30, 2019

"Dear friends. I would like to share a few thoughts this week on addiction. I do so not only because it is topical and relevant to our society today but because it is found in the Gospel story this weekend of the man who wasn’t contented with his rich harvest but wanted an even greater return the following year – a year he would never see because of his premature death. Like many addictions, his was to ‘having more’. What he had was never enough.

Now when we talk about addictions, we might be tempted to think only of the big ones we hear about – addictions to alcohol, to smoking, drugs, gambling or pornography. If we do then we might be tempted to cod ourselves in thinking that addictions effect other people but not me. That I’m ok. The truth is that all of us are prone to any number of addictions at any time. Most of us are probably struggling with some addiction right now. It’s not a question of if we are, but more a question of ‘to what am I addicted?’ This is because the human spirit always seeks to attach itself to something greater than itself. And it is this attachment that will either destroy us or fill us with joy in this life and the next.

One man who came full circle on this journey of attachment and detachment was Matt Talbot. It is said that he was a hopeless alcoholic by the time he was 14. He was so addicted to drink that he would do anything and lose everything just to have another drink. He pawned his clothes and boots to get money for alcohol. On one occasion, he stole a fiddle from a street entertainer in Dublin and sold it to buy drink. His addiction to alcohol turned him into someone he hated to be. When he hit rock bottom, he turned to God in desperate prayer and pledged with his grace to detach himself from drink and to attach himself ever more faithfully to God. In his efforts to turn his life around, Matt Talbot was successful but credited everything to God and his mercy.

We can learn so much from his story. The most important thing to learn is how his addiction, like our addictions and every addiction, is a spiritual problem that needs a spiritual cure. Before his conversion, Matt Talbot tried to satisfy his need for God with alcohol before he realised that there is no chemical solution to a spiritual problem. We are prone to addictions when God is not in first place and what comes first instead in our lives are things that can never replace him. Matt Talbot’s detachment from drink corresponded to his attachment to God. To help him make this painful transition, we know he read the writings of St Frances de Sales who urges us not just to give up our addictions but to give up our love for them. So for Matt Talbot, it wasn’t just a question of giving up the drink. It was just as much about giving up his love for it. Since his death on 7th June 1925, Matt Talbot has been an inspiration and sign of hope to people like us who struggle with addictions. He was declared Venerable by Pope Paul VI in 1975 and how wonderful it would be if one day he is declared a saint. He once wrote: ‘Never be too hard on the person who can’t give up drink. It’s as hard to give up the drink as it is to raise the dead to life again. But both are possible and even easy for Our Lord. We have only to depend on him.’

Today we pray for ourselves, that we may know our addictions and admit them. We pray that we become detached and free from whatever holds us back and kills our joy that comes from God. We pray that every day, we may attach our spirits in humble prayer to the God who made them and the God for whom they were made. We pray for all those whose lives are being destroyed by addiction here and beyond. May this be the time when new hope is born and many souls turn back again to God. Matt Talbot, pray for us."

*Note:  We are responsible for this title.

Wednesday, August 28, 2019

Gregory Jakielski: Advocate of Venerable Matt Talbot


We celebrate the seventh anniversary of Gregory “meeting” Matt Talbot in an article and his subsequent promotion of Matt throughout the world through websites and Facebook in Polish and English and especially in providing free Matt Talbot prayer cards.
 
Since Gregory has been personally paying for the prayer cards, we strongly encourage your financial support for his action at PayPal: mateusztalbot@wp.pl
 
 
The following is his public announcement at https://www.facebook.com/VenerableMattTalbot/
August 26 2019
“7 YEARS WITH VENERABLE MATT
Today is a special day for me!
 
7 years ago in the bookshop in Niepokalanów (Poland) I have received the August issue of the monthly "Word Among Us". There was an article devoted to the Venerable Matt Talbot and so my adventure began. These seven years have passed like one day.
I am asking for prayer for strength and resources for the next years of work for spreading information about Venerable Matt Talbot.”

Tuesday, August 20, 2019

A Poem Honouring Matt Talbot

Martin Jim McFadden wrote Matt and I "in honour of Matt Talbot
who was a great inspiration to me in my battle with the bottle."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DH69eLI8uSY

More about his sobriety journey is available at


 



Sunday, August 11, 2019

Can Spirituality Help Heal the Wounds of Addiction?

Addiction understanding and recovery options were far more limited in Venerable Matt Talbot’s day. Yet, there are key aspects of Matt's recovery that remain the same.
 
The Opioid Crisis: Can spirituality help heal the wounds of addiction?
by John Burger
Apr 26, 2019

 

Addicts find help in the Twelve Steps, hard work and intense prayer, or a deeper commitment to the sacraments.


Kevin Lowry says the past five years have been some of the toughest in his family’s life. But they have also been years of rich spiritual growth.

The Lowry family saga began when 16-year-old Danikeyel stumbled into his parent's bedroom in the middle of the night and slumped over the bed.

“I’m dying,” he gasped as he begged for prayers. “I can’t breathe.”
 
The Lowrys’ third son was overdosing on drugs. Kevin Lowry called 911, and an EMT crew and hospital staff saved Daniel from death. After that, as Lowry tells it, Daniel went through lots of different approaches to cure his addiction—counseling, physicians, treatment programs.

“But nothing really worked,” he said. “Or it was temporary.”

Through a trusted friend, the Lowrys discovered a program in Florida called Comunita Cenacolo. Founded in 1983 by an Italian nun named Elvira Petrozzi, the “Community of the Cenacle,” to use its English name, provides a structured life of work and prayer for young people who have addiction problem.

The Lowrys found something that worked. Daniel spent four years in the community, “graduated” and returned home. He is doing well, working and looking to go back to school.

About 218,000 people in the United States have not been as fortunate. That’s the number, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, who have died from overdoses related to prescription opioids since 1999. And while more than 2 million Americans are thought to be addicted to opioids, there are only 4,000 U.S. physicians who are addiction specialists, says the American Society of Addiction Medicine.

Treating addicts takes a variety of forms. In recent years, there’s been an increased interest in cognitive behavioral therapy, general counseling and medication-assisted treatment, said Dr. Marc Galanter, Professor of Psychiatry at New York University School of Medicine.

Some treatment options, like Cenacolo, also try to address addiction-related issues in a spiritual way or through a spiritual lens.

The “12 steps,” which are the basis of Alcoholics Anonymous and many similar programs, are perhaps the best known spiritual-based treatment option.

“They provide a spiritual outlet in which one can find a relationship with a higher power to quell the cravings and surrender to a new way of life, to do God’s will,” said Scott Weeman, founder of Catholic in Recovery. The ministry draws from both the 12 steps and the sacramental life of the Church to help alcoholics and drug addicts recover. The 12 steps can help one make an inventory of oneself in seeking to know how one’s own behavior and attitude have caused misconduct, said Weeman, a recovering alcoholic.

Dr. Galanter said that until about five or 10 years ago, most treatment programs were 12 step-oriented and discussed the role of spirituality in 12-step programs. “In recent years there’s been a tendency to give it less prominence in their discussion of their programs. But still I would say that the majority of residential programs and a good half of ambulatory programs do include a significant 12-step component,” he said in an interview.

When people come to AA or Narcotics Anonymous, they tend to rely more on the mutual support the programs offer, said Galanter, author of Spirituality and the Healthy Mind. “But if they get involved for the longer term, the spiritual aspects are very prominent. So the long term members are very much oriented toward spirituality and the sense of ‘God as we understood him’ [a phrase from one of the 12 steps]. God as we understood him tends to be pretty universally thought of in a spiritual way but different people define for themselves what God as we understood him means. For some traditional people it may be Jesus Christ; for others it may just be the AA program itself. For some people it’s like a nature or aesthetically oriented spirituality.”

Not all drug addiction programs have a spiritual component, of course, but for the majority, there’s “definitely a recognition and respect of spiritual issues,” said Galanter.

For Nancy Vericker, not only did the 12 steps help with her recovery from alcoholism, it helped her recover her cradle Catholic faith.

“I found a deeper level of meaning when I entered a 12 step program,” said Vericker, author of Unchained: Our Family’s Addiction Mess is Our Message. The book, co-written with J.P. Vericker, her son, tells the story of his opioid addiction and recovery. “It’s not like it’s ‘Oh you get sober and you have spirituality.’ It’s the spirituality that leads you. You rely on your higher power to reshape your mind and thinking. … It really helped me to see the face of a loving and benevolent God. It kind of stripped me of a sense of the institutional Church and focused me to rely on a spiritual journey.”

Weeman, of Catholic in Recovery, sees parallels between the 12 steps and the Catholic sacramental life. The surrender to a higher power, he says, is like a “plunge into the waters of Baptism.” The sacrament of confession is similar to the “thorough process of reconciliation that happens within ourselves, with God and with others, starting with that fearless and searching moral inventory, … asking God to remove whatever defect of character or stain that gets in the way of us knowing and serving him, and making amends to those we have hurt.”

“From there, the process involves maintaining that spiritual awakening by continuing to take personal inventory and promptly admitting when we’re wrong,” Weeman continued. Prayer and meditation help improve “our conscious contact with God as we understand him. From a Catholic standpoint that’s most prevalent through the sacrament of the Eucharist, where we receive the body and blood of Jesus on a regular basis so that we may be filled and may know him in a way that surpasses any human understanding and that that continues to seek God as the source of healing, strength, and goodness.”

Albino Aragno, who runs the Cenacolo Community outside of St. Augustine, Florida, where Daniel Lowry lived, calls the ministry’s approach “very structural and disciplined living, I would say almost monastic.”

“People need order in their life, especially addicts,” Aragno said in an interview. “They never have any structure; they’re always going up and down, on the floor, in the situation and the emotion of the moment.”

The strict daily schedule begins with a 6:15 wake-up, followed by religious services, breakfast, a morning full of work, group prayer, and more work. After supper, there’s group conversation about the Gospel of the day, and opening up about feelings, emotions, and current situations.

“We need something more to grasp, to sustain us in life, because with our own strength we cannot do it,” said Aragno, who himself was an early member of Cenacolo in Italy. Prayer, which includes daily Mass, sacramental Confession, group recitations of the Rosary, and private meditation, “opens the conscience … and then also helps us to really develop a relationship with God,” Aragno said. “He’s the one who’s going to help us sustain ourselves outside of the community.”

In the midst of it all, said Lowry, author of How God Hauled Me Kicking and Screaming Into the Catholic Church, “there’s a sense in which there’s a character development aspect and a focus on the virtues that goes hand in hand with the spiritual development.

Lowry said that he was shocked to hear another parent whose son was in the Cenacle Community tell him that he would one day see his son’s addiction as a blessing. But his words were prophetic.

“It probably turned into one of the best things that ever happened to me spiritually and my family as well,” Lowry said. “When you have a son or daughter in community you go to monthly support meetings, because we’re really walking alongside them on the path.” Daniel’s addiction, he said, “became probably the single greatest impetus for spiritual growth for my wife and me and probably for some of our kids.”

As for Daniel, he said, “As a result of all the struggles, he’s got a really solid spiritual life and a prayer life that I would love to see in the [family’s seven] other kids.”

Sunday, July 21, 2019

Saintly Secrets: Venerable Matt Talbot

As part of the "Catholic Leaders Webcast Series," Our Sunday Visitor Publishers has available a fifty-nine minute webcast about Venerable Matt Talbot by researcher and author Woodeene Koenig-Bricker is available on demand at

Sunday, July 14, 2019

Wednesday, June 19, 2019

Venerable Matt Talbot’s “Feast Day”

Matt Talbot was an ordinary poor, Dublin working man, an unskilled laborer with very limited education who struggled with alcoholism. But through the grace of God, Matt was able to overcome his addiction and live a life of heroic holiness, virtue and charity.

He is a great witness that even in addiction, there is hope. May we ask Matt to help those we know in our families and community who are struggling with addictions.

May we also ask God to raise this humble working man to the list of Saints in the Church for he is surely already in heaven.

Matt’s “Feast Day” is commemorated on June 19.

 Venerable Matt Talbot, pray for us

Sunday, June 16, 2019

A Homily that Highlights the Life of Venerable Matt Talbot

In an Easter homily on resurrection by Fr. Dan Fickes at St. Joseph Parish in Avon Lake, Ohio, he discusses the Venerable Matt Talbot, OFS as a former alcoholic who became known as an Irish ascetic revered by many Catholics for his piety, charity and mortification of the flesh. 
This video was posted on Apr 25, 2019 at